Women are constantly and specifically trained out of noticing or responding to their bodily discomfort, particularly if they want to be sexually “viable.” Have you looked at how women are “supposed” to present themselves as sexually attractive? High heels? Trainers? Spanx? These are things designed to wrench bodies. Men can be appealing in comfy clothes. They walk in shoes that don’t shorten their Achilles tendons. They don’t need to get the hair ripped off their genitals or take needles to the face to be perceived as “conventionally” attractive. They can — just as women can — opt out of all this, but the baseline expectations are simply different, and it’s ludicrous to pretend they aren’t.
The old implied social bargain between women and men (which Andrew Sullivancalls “natural”) is that one side will endure a great deal of discomfort and pain for the other’s pleasure and delight. And we’ve all agreed to act like that’s normal, and just how the world works….
Women are supposed to perform comfort and pleasure they do not feel under conditions that make genuine comfort almost impossible. Next time you see a woman breezily laughing in a complicated and revealing gown that requires her not to eat or drink for hours, know a) that you are witnessing the work of a consummate illusionist acting her heart out and b) that you have been trained to see that extraordinary, Oscar-worthy performance as merely routine.Now think about how that training might filter down to sexual contexts….
One side effect of teaching one gender to outsource its pleasure to a third party (and endure a lot of discomfort in the process) is that they’re going to be poor analysts of their own discomfort, which they have been persistently taught to ignore.
Fairtrade farmers suffer because they have to meet all the rules and produce lower yield organic products yet can only sell a small unpredictable percentage of their product for (not actually good) fair trade prices.
Brands that claim to make sweatshop-free clothing are constantly discovered in sweatshops.
To produce ‘green energy’ forests are cut down and shipped from the US to Europe on coal-powered ships.
When we say there is no ethical consumption under capitalism, we mean every single product. As long as profit rules, humans, animals and nature will suffer.
pink-sne: how can we be sure that ethical consumption (as far as environmentally speaking) would happen under socialism/communism? wouldn’t it come down to the infrastructure of that socialist/communist country? sorry if this is a stupid question but I don’t see how a communist or socialist system would eliminate our current ecological problems because renewable energy is costly no matter a country’s economic model
This is a big question.
So here’s a very simplified version of my answer. Please note that I can’t answer for the kind of socialists/communists who envision a future with countries and governments.
As an anarchist, I envision a future without states, without parliaments, where workers run their own factories and neighborhoods are run by people living in it and cities are run by the neighborhoods and so forth.
Within that anarchist future, work and resources are divided on the principle of ‘work according to your ability, receive according to your needs’. Which means that we build and make and clean and do the things that need to be done, because we can do them, and we receive the food, and clothes, and housing, and care we need, because we need them. That’s all.
This is fundamentally different from a society run by profit incentives. In an anarchist society you can not get a collection of limousines by exploiting others. You have nothing to gain from hoarding property while others need housing. You have nothing to gain from destroying food while others go hungry. And if you for some twisted reason would try to do either of these things, the community would have the power to stop you.
And importantly: there is no inherent incentive towards endless economic growth. Once we are able to provide the needs of everyone (which is something which humanity can easily achieve by now), we don’t look for more plastic stuff to make and sell. Once we have enough for everyone, we just work less and create more free time to do what life is really for: living, creativity, being together.
In such a society, we would still have to come together and make plans to limit our impact on the earth, like how we handle our trash, how we restore the forests that capitalism has destroyed, how we help restore the insect population, etc. Switching completely to green energy would still be a lot of work. But when society isn’t driven by profit, we can actually prioritize those things, because anyone can see that they are important.
Now I know you probably have questions about this sort of society. To learn more, I suggest reading Anarchy Works by Peter Gelderloos. But to get the full picture, let’s also talk about capitalism:
The profit incentive vs. the community incentive changes everything. The ‘green energy’ in the post above is a good example: EU states agreed to limit their CO2 output by switching to ‘green energy’. The intention was to create less CO2 and stop global warming. Neat, right?
But green energy is expensive. So everyone motivated by profit immediately started looking for cheaper options. Lucky for them, ‘green energy’ included the possibility of using ‘bio energy’, which is basically plants. In theory, this means recycling bio waste from households into energy. Not a bad idea.
But countries eager to make money decided to switch to ‘green energy’ by having forests cut down in the US and shipped from the US to Europe on coal-powered ships.
Which is massively massively bad for the environment. But on paper it fits the rules of ‘green energy’ and it is cheaper than meeting the actual intentions of the green energy deals. Profit is prioritized over our actual need to stop global warming.
Countries also pulled other tricks like making ‘units of green energy’ a trade-able good. As a result, countries that are polluting the earth can basically buy ‘I used green energy’ permits from countries that are making better choices, and the polluting countries can still claim they met the agreement because they outsourced their obligations.
The take away? Profit incentive ruins everything. The best climate deals aren’t worth the paper they are written on if the societies that act on them are driven by a profit incentive.
On top of that, stock-market based capitalism is designed in such a way that it becomes impossible for big companies to make ‘the right choice’. If a company announces to their shareholders “we could make 2 billion dollars of profit in 2019 but we’re going to go for 1 billion because we want to prioritize the environment”, it’s shareholders have the power to overturn that decision or to simply sell all their shares and switch to a more profitable company. The ‘right choice’ company would go bankrupt and the companies choosing profit would flourish.
By design, the dirtiest, most profit driven companies always end up on top. The ones that grow, expand, exploit more workers and create more useless shit, are the ones the shareholders support. The rest die.
There is no way individual people can change that. We can blame individual CEO’s and politicians (and they are certainly willing collaborators with blood on their hands) but in the end capitalism itself is the puppet master and individuals making ‘the right choice’ can’t change that.
Will alternative societies be perfect? Probably not. But by breaking out of these loops, at least they create the chance of making better choices and saving what’s left of the earth. Under capitalism, there is nothing left except an inevitable drive towards mass extinction.
I can’t, like, vouch for every essay being good or having good takes (i have not read a fraction of these yet) but a lot of them have great titles and i want to share the wealth. Will upload more to the folder as my prof uploads more to our course site.
feel free to reblog this post & spread the link! Gay renlit bullshit for everyone!!
reblogging to let y’all know that my professor uploaded a bunch more files so I’ve added about a dozen readings to this dropbox folder! Including essays on sodomy in marlowe’s edward ii! shakespeare’s sonnets and the history of sexuality! gender performance and crossdressing in lyly’s gallathea! early modern theories abt human reproductive systems! And more!
camp fashion is defined as ostentatious, exaggerated, affected, theatrical; effeminate or homosexual; pertaining to or characteristic of homosexuals.
“the essence of camp is its love of the unnatural: of artifice and exaggeration.” said by susan sontag, who wrote the 1964 essay “notes on ‘camp,’” the 58-point treatise that arguably brought the concept into the mainstream media.
this year’s met gala will be hosted by anna wintour, alessandro michele, harry styles, lady gaga, and serena williams.
“To many Christians their immense privilege seems invisible. They don’t understand how much of our society panders to their unspoken power. The churches on every corner, the holidays and celebrations structured around Christian dates, the pandering of politicians, the ceremonial deism that acts as a placeholder for state-sponsored religion. Even our vernacular is colored by Christianity: “God bless you,” “we’ll pray for you,” “I’m in heaven,” or even “go to hell.” Yet despite this, many Christians, particularly conservative Christians, have a major investment in seeing themselves as part of a persecuted minority. This was reinforced for me in the comments section of a recent post at the journalism commentary site Get Religion. There, I was informed that Michele Bachmann was part of a religious minority, and that due to mainstream media criticism “one has to speculate that perhaps Christians are a small minority in the United States.”
Where does this inaccurate perspective come from? How can a group see itself as a minority when it holds so much power?”
Chapters: 7/7 Fandom: Superman – All Media Types, Batman – All Media Types, Justice League (2017), DCU (Movies), Man of Steel (2013), Batman v Superman: Dawn of Justice Rating: Explicit Warnings: No Archive Warnings Apply Relationships: Clark Kent/Bruce Wayne Characters: Clark Kent, Bruce Wayne, Martha Kent, Alfred Pennyworth, Diana (Wonder Woman) Additional Tags: post-Justice league, Fix-It, Kinda?, Justice League (2017) Spoilers, SuperBat, UST, Awkward Boners, bruce is so Bruce about everything, they’re both so stupid, BUT I LOVE THEM, fluffy domestic superbat, First Time, Friends to Lovers, well if i’m being honest, Enemies to Friends to Lovers, ;alskdfjas, how many times can bruce wayne pejoratively call clark kent ‘son’ in one tiny fic, turns out: many times Summary:
They’re each other’s kill switch; but, like, in a totally romantic way.
ALL RIGHT FRIEND-OS, IT’S DONE!!! IT’S DONEZO IT’S TIME
Jewish people who type the word “god” as “g-d”: Do you think you can fool the big man upstairs with a technical work around? When he goes through your emails/texts/facebook posts after you die, you don’t think he’s gonna see that dash and think “this sneaky fuck here, enjoy h-ll.”
this thought comes from someone who has no idea how Judaism works, but okay.
People avoid writing out God’s name, because you aren’t ever allowed to destroy or desecrate something with God’s name on it – you have to bury it instead. That’s what a genizah is. The most well known is probably the Cairo Genizah. It’s a box where Jews can put anything with God’s name on it to ensure that it gets buried.
So obviously Jews do write out God’s name. In fact, it used to be traditional to mark the top of pages with God’s name as a kind of blessing or mark of honesty. That’s why there are so many miscellaneous texts in genizahs.
Judaism reads “do not use my name in vain” pretty literally as a command to revere and respect the Y-H-V-H name of God.
Most rabbis agree that this commandment only holds for the hebrew, so not typing out God is more something people do out of respect or as a nod to this tradition. Some people use G-d because they want to parallel the fact that the tradition was put in place for people who would be speaking and writing in hebrew or a very near identical language like Aramaic.
It’s a matter of respect, not a matter of “don’t do this or you will be punished.”
Besides, Judaism deals almost exclusively with punishment in life and Judaism very explicitly doesn’t have a clear and codified notion of עולם הבא (the world to come). And there is certainly no notion of hell.
Also, Judaism is not nearly that harsh in response to small mistakes. We have a holiday every year explicitly devoted to the idea that we all fuck up and that we need to ask forgiveness from each other and God (and during which God does all the judging – God doesn’t wait until after we die. It’s an active thing that can be constantly adjusted).
Maybe world religions is not the best topic of contemplation during your shower.
As a tangentially related note, the Cairo Genizah basically didn’t get emptied for like, a thousand years, and in the late 19th century historians started going through it and found all kinds of writing in Hebrew and Arabic about day-to-day Jewish life, trading activity, etc. throughout the Islamic world and Indian Ocean region, there’s even writings from famous people like Maimonides.There’s hundreds of thousands of manuscripts. Some of them have been translated and published and it’s really neat to look at if you’re into that kind of thing.
So this tradition gave us a historical treasure whose value cannot even be described.