lauraannegilman:

Since it’s sadly relevant, a PSA for anyone attending a Jewish funeral or visiting a home where they are sitting shiva: no flowers, please. We understand that’s your tradition and won’t be offended, but respecting our traditions is a better gift of care.

https://www.shiva.com/learning-center/what-to-bring-or-send/flowers-and-jewish-mourning/

lgbt music about

sapphic-playlists:

sapphic spotify playlist / mlm spotify playlist

best friends

  • bestie by sizzy rocket
  • boyfriend by tegan and sara
  • hmu by spacegirl gemmy
  • iilwmbf by salen
  • jenny by studio killers
  • kari equals hottie by the dollyrots
  • no kings by the total bettys
  • sleepover by hayley kiyoko
  • two little girls by ani difranco

breakups – wlw 

  • 0108 by nakala
  • always this way by laura marling
  • bad at love by halsey
  • come on in my kitchen by larkin poe
  • conversations by lauren sanderson 
  • cruise freestyle by nakala
  • curious by hayley kiyoko
  • deleted you by be steadwell
  • good girl by domo wilson
  • in my blood by ji nilson
  • let me go by be steadwell
  • like me by chely wright
  • me & her by heavens to betsy 
  • new girl by be steadwell
  • now i’m all messed up by tegan & sara
  • she’s not you by grace petrie
  • strangers by halsey
  • talia by king princess 

breakups – mlm

  • better off just friends by pansy division
  • closure by ieuan
  • fighting for by brendan maclean
  • glenview by pansy division
  • it doesnt matter to him by john grant 
  • ramona by ieuan
  • stephen by brayton bowman
  • straight boy by shamir 
  • the day u left me by ieuan
  • too much to ask by pansy division

bisexuality

  • b.i.g by caitlyn scarlett
  • bad at love by halsey
  • bi by alicia champion
  • bi by alizee 
  • bi by living colour
  • bisexual by grlwood 
  • blinders by phem
  • boys by maris
  • boys/girls by torrey mercer
  • do not disturb by halestorm
  • gettin’ bi by crazy ex gf cast
  • girls/girls/boys by panic! at the disco
  • i do both jay and jane by postman
  • i wanna bf with a car by kate nash
  • in or out by ani difranco
  • not myself tonight by christina aguilera 
  • pretty boys and pretty girls-book of love
  • swings both ways by robbie williams 

cheating – wlw 

  • all the girls love alice by emeli sande
  • boyfriend by marika hackman
  • girlfriend by kitty
  • greatness by jen foster
  • i kissed a girl by jill sobule

cheating – mlm

  • all american boy by steve grand
  • billy brown by mika
  • deadahh by lil ph*g
  • girlfriend by mnek
  • i kissed a boy by jupither
  • im still your f*g by broken social scene 
  • life lovers by pansy division
  • to be alone with you by sufjan stevens 

christmas 

  • 12 gays of christmas-bubba love sponge
  • a dirty gay christmas-jonny mcgovern
  • homo christmas by pansy division
  • i saw daddy kissing santa-rupaul
  • itsa very queer christmas-erin mckeown
  • river by sam smith
  • rudy the big booty reindeer-big freedia
  • santa baby by rupaul
  • santa is a gay man-big freedia

crushes & love – wlw 

  • all day and all of the night – kate nash
  • and then she kissed me by st. vincent
  • aquafina by cj run
  • beautiful girl by sophie b. hawkins
  • boys aside by sofya wang
  • bwu by tegan and sara 
  • california friends by the regrettes
  • cardigan sweater by jasmine kennedy
  • caroline by girlyman
  • cherry by rina sawayama
  • come what may by daisy o’connor
  • daisy by zedd
  • girl by the internet
  • hometown by maddie ross 
  • honey by kehlani
  • i love you, sadie by wyvern lingo
  • if it isnt her by ani difranco
  • know your name by mary lambert
  • mad about the girl by valerie june
  • marian by julian weldon
  • marry me by tender forever
  • proud by ji nilson
  • radiant warmth by miki ratsula
  • rebel girl by bikini kill
  • red by miki ratsula
  • runway by kodie shane 
  • she by jen foster
  • she says by ani difranco
  • she keeps me warm by mary lambert
  • sing to her by kodie shane
  • sunshine by grace petrie
  • watercolor roses by ness nite
  • wild by molly burch
  • with a girl like you by thao & the get down stay down

crushes & love – mlm

  • all american boy by steve grand 
  • american boyfriend by kevin abstract
  • and i love him by benjamin gibbard
  • caramel by john grant 
  • denny by pansy division
  • garden boy by boy blue 
  • handsome man by matt alber
  • hold each other by a great big world
  • i met a man by romanovsky and phillips
  • just some guy by anthony rapp
  • love came along by pansy division
  • mannequin by leon markcus
  • michael by franz ferdinand 
  • my guy by kele okereke 
  • too beautiful by pansy division
  • two men in love by the irrepresibles
  • what a beautiful day by brett every 

gay & lesbian culture 

  • bears by tom goss
  • blue collar sex kitten-lauren ruth ward
  • boys wear pink by todrick hall
  • butch in the streets by tribe 8
  • closet femme by kate reid
  • drag king bar by bitch and animal
  • dyke bars never last by sapphic lasers
  • elderly lesbians by sara renberg
  • everyone is gay by a great big world
  • femme bitch top by tribe 8
  • gay bash by melange lavonne
  • gay parenting by melange lavonne
  • gay sex by be steadwell
  • girls like girls by hayley kiyoko
  • i can be a lesbian by judy small
  • i don’t do boys by elektra
  • i’ll never want a bf by bec sandridge
  • influenced by queers by judy small
  • lesbian chic by judy small
  • lgbt by lowell
  • lgbt by rupaul
  • like boys by hyphen hyphen
  • qda by god is my co-pilot
  • queer by frankie simone
  • queer for you by the degenerettes
  • the chapstick lesbian song by cassendre xavier 
  • the ellen page by partner
  • only dyke at the open mic-kate reid
  • the only gay person by sara renberg
  • the queer song by two nice girls
  • twinkie twinkie little star-pansy division
  • twinks by matt fishel
  • vaccines made me gay by grlwood
  • war paint by frankie simone 

homophobia & coming out 

  • american boyfriend by kevin abstract
  • apple pie by todrick hall
  • becoming myself by domo wilson
  • behind closed doors by matt fishel
  • boys in the street by greg holden
  • checking out your babe by tribe 8
  • compulsive liar by ezra furman
  • dumb by todrick hall
  • feminist housewives-bitch and animal
  • forbidden by todrick hall
  • g.d.m.m.l. grls by tyler glenn
  • gay thoughts by the growlers 
  • gay sex by be steadwell
  • heaven sent by parker millsap
  • hold your hand by nicolette forte
  • homo song by mara levi
  • lezbophobia by tribe 8
  • love is love by naz & ella
  • love is love by starley
  • married in london by janis ian
  • miserable america by kevin abstract
  • not worth hiding by alex the astronaut
  • pride by grace petrie
  • radio friendly pop song by matt fishel
  • she keeps me warm by mary lambert
  • since when are you gay? by childbirth 
  • some of my best friends-pansy division
  • thats so gay by pansy division
  • the village by wrabel
  • this is me by jen foster
  • whats expected of you-lipstick homicide
  • who wears the pants?? by soko
  • you can’t pray the gay away-laura bell bundy

pining – wlw

  • 1950 by king princess
  • better anyway by lauren sanderson
  • boyfriend by marika hackman
  • boyfriend by tegan and sara
  • carrie (i want a girl) by moaning lisa
  • done deal by grace petrie
  • explosion by zolita
  • flirting with her by sir babygirl
  • girls by girl in red
  • girlfriend by kitty
  • girlfriend by ria mae
  • i need a woman to love by kesha
  • i wanna bf with a car by kate nash
  • i want her by blind fury
  • i wanna be your girlfriend by girl in red 
  • jenny by studio killers
  • jessie’s girl by mary lambert
  • pretty girls by sequin sally
  • sister by kate nash
  • sleepover by hayley kiyoko

pining – mlm

  • boys that dance by ieuan
  • girl crush by harry styles
  • good guys by mika 
  • good wife by mika 
  • guy.exe by superfruit
  • him by geo louis
  • homie lova friend by anye elite 
  • i love you by woodkid
  • i really wanted you by pansy division
  • i wanna boi by pwr bttm
  • i wanted him by lontalius
  • im the friend by pansy division
  • my heart aches for you by pansy division
  • need a man blues by bronski beat
  • preppy boy by john grant 
  • the art teacher by rufus wainwright
  • the man i love by chester lockhart

sex – wlw

  • bestie by sizzy rocket
  • bitches by tove lo
  • boinked the bride by ember swift 
  • box by siya
  • dive by tiffany gouche
  • dreamboat by mirah
  • flowers for anna by ames
  • girls by beatrice eli
  • hefner by tana mongeau
  • holy by king princess
  • i didnt just kiss her by jen foster
  • kissing pink by kodie shane
  • lick it by god-des & she
  • pussy mine by bella thorne 
  • pynk by janelle monae 
  • sweet girl by nicole dollanganger
  • tangerine by cj run
  • true love cafe by nicole dollanganger 

sex – mlm

  • 20 years of cock by pansy division
  • beercan boy by pansy division
  • bloom by troye sivan
  • chanel by frank ocean
  • daddy by sakima
  • dick of death by pansy division
  • groovy underwear by pansy division
  • he’s got his mothers hips-john grant 
  • he’s trippi by sakima
  • i lost my innocence by ezra furman
  • iced out dick by lil ph*g
  • its just a job by pansy division
  • james bondage by pansy division
  • new pleasures by pansy division
  • rachbottomoff by pansy division
  • seventeen by troye sivan
  • snug slacks by john grant 
  • t.h.u.g (trade) by todrick hall
  • tease by tyra b 
  • the cocksucker club by pansy division
  • tinted windows by pansy division
  • wet by anye elite

transitioning & dysphoria

  • a guy named joe by joe stevens
  • boy in a dress by namoli brennet
  • daughter by ryan cassata
  • daughterson by joe stevens
  • dysphoria by saint wellesley
  • f*gette by athens boys choir
  • ftm at the dmv by schmekel
  • genderless by jonesin and the hurt
  • genderqueer love song by schmekel 
  • girl or boy by dani shay
  • my lgbt story by itsbambii
  • new men with old man names-schmekel
  • second puberty by jake edwards
  • sex:male;gender:whatever-human kitten
  • tell me a story by skylar kergil
  • the village by wrabel
  • trans is love by marissa kay
  • trans punx by size of sadness
  • transgender dysphoria blues-against me 
  • true trans soul rebel by against me 
  • they/them/theirs by worriers
  • you cant tell me by jake edwards

youth

  • carla williams kissed me-jamie anderson
  • compulsive liar by ezra furman
  • diplomats son by vampire weekend
  • first time he kissed a boy by kadie elder
  • grace by jamie anderson
  • i lost my innocence by ezra furman
  • kiss the boy by keiynan lonsdale
  • loners by maddie ross
  • mr, peterson by perfume genius
  • pat me on the ass by pansy division
  • room by palehound
  • seventeen by troye sivan
  • seventeen by kevin abstract
  • son of a preacher man by tom goss
  • the art teacher by rufus wainwright

glumshoe:

If you like being fashionable, looking hot, and/or channeling your inner eldritch abomination, you need to commission Etsy artist FactoryRejects for a custom up-cycled jacket. You might have seen her work floating around uncredited on Tumblr or Pinterest. While she is currently focusing on a related project and opening a line of clothing made from scratch, she is always accepting commissions, and you can browse her previous sales page for examples and inspiration. 

It’s one thing when your wardrobe earns you weird looks – it’s another thing entirely when your wardrobe stares right back.

So You’re A Gentile Who’s Realized We Have A Problem: Now What?

prismatic-bell:

Tumblr likes to spin its wheels and spend time yelling at each other, so here’s a nice comprehensive guide. Five Things You Can Do Now That You Know We Were Serious About The Antisemitism:

1) Accept that if you’re in this to be an ally, you’re going to have a tough road ahead of you. We’re traditionally very wary of outsiders in our spaces because when we welcome them, well … this happens. In fact, if you want to convert to Judaism, you traditionally get rejected three times, just to make sure you’re serious and not shitting with us. Expect wariness. Expect to get your feelings hurt, because a lot of us are very raw right now. Stick with us anyway–once we know you’re not just bandwagoning us, you’re going to end up with a lot of friends who are relying on you. Nobody said allyship was easy.

2) Learn about Judaism. Note that I DO NOT MEAN LEARNING WITH INTENTION TO CONVERT. We don’t proselytize and it would be against Torah for me to even suggest it. What I mean here is, you can’t call bullshit if you don’t know what we’re about. Some good basic resources are The Jewish Book of Why by Alfred Kolatch; My Jewish Learning; and for a strict Orthodox standpoint, Chabad. You’ll find that some things in these sources contradict each other. That’s pretty par for the course in Judaism; we don’t have a single dogma or point of view.

3) Consider calling a local synagogue and asking if they have volunteer work for a gentile ally. Introduce yourself, explain (briefly) what got your attention, and offer your services–to stand outside during services, to walk folks to and from shul (this is particularly important in Orthodox communities, where driving on Shabbat is forbidden), hell, to help stuff envelopes for whatever vigil or service they may be holding in memoriam. Anything will help.

4) You may wish to make a donation to a local synagogue or Jewish charity. I strongly recommend the ADL (Anti-Defamation League), which is a Jewish charity focused on combating antisemitism. Jews traditionally give monetary gifts in sums of $18, which corresponds to the numeric value of the word “chai,” or “life.” The last time this happened I made a post about this tradition and got accused of being a Nazi because of the whole 1-8 A-H thing, so let’s just nip that right in the bud: yes, we know. It’s a horrible coincidence. We’re not giving up a few-thousand-year-old tradition because of some dipshit with a bad moustache. If you can’t afford $18, consider moving the decimal over and donating in multiples of 18, like $3.60. Your meaning will still be perfectly clear, and anything helps. If you wish to make a donation in memory/in honor (which many synagogues appreciate), I suggest either choosing the name of one of the shooting victims–giving tzedakah, or charity, in their names is considered a great mitzvah and a blessing to their families–or using the phrase “am Yisrael chai.” It means “Israel lives.” Although the country in the MENA region is called Israel, this is not what the phrase refers to–the traditional patriarch of Judaism was named Jacob, and renamed as Israel following a wrestling match with a messenger of G-d. To say “am Yisrael chai” is to say his people, that is, the Jewish people, live.

And on that note …

5) In the coming days and weeks, you’re going to see a lot of people making this about Israel or Zionism. Please tell them to shut the fuck up. Israel, Zionism, and Jews are three completely different, albeit related, things. To wit: Israel is a geopolitical country situated on the site of our ancestral homeland and currently headed by Prime Minister Benjamin Netanyahu; Zionism is the belief that Jews deserve a safe homeland; and Jews are a group of people spread across six continents and most countries who are united by a common group of ancestors from the Levant (the part of the world now occupied by the geopolitical entity known as Israel). Saying the victims of this shooting had anything to do with the political situation in Israel would be like saying I, personally, am responsible for Vladimir Putin because I have a Russian ancestor. I speak exactly two words of Russian, have never been to Russia, have no family left living there (and haven’t for four generations), but I’m totally responsible for Russia. You see how ridiculous that sounds? The same applies to Jews and Israel. Please, please, PLEASE do not conflate this event with Israeli politics. I’m not saying Israeli politics aren’t a topic worth discussing–I’m saying this is not a discussion they belong in. Don’t let the powers that be (or the alt-right sleaze that sucks the dicks of the powers that be) distract from the topic at hand, which is “out of control guns meet out of control xenophobia and antisemitism,” by throwing OMG ISRAEL AND ZIONISM AND GLOBALISM into the mix.

And finally: yes, gentiles, this is okay for you to reblog. In fact I encourage it. And I will answer any questions you have to the best of my ability, if they’re asked in good faith. Please just follow the most basic tenet of Judaism, which is: don’t be a dick.

If you’re ready to stand and help, now is the time.

kramergate:

kramergate:

not to get mad nerdy but I just discovered tabletopaudio.com and I’m fuckin losing it

this person (people?) goes about making 10 minute long loopable ambient noise tracks for every imaginable setting (docks, taverns, forests, airships, spaceships, office buildings, sewers, EVERYTHING) and has over a hundred tracks to offer, and on top of that if none of them suit you there’s a huge feature called soundpad where you can mix and match from their set of hundreds of individual sound effects and music clips to make your own ambient background track

holy shit dudes

I did a little further reading on his about and the guy running this is just a dad with two kids who like playing tabletops with him and he had the composition and musical training to start making soundtracks for his games then decided to spread that to the world for absolutely free, he even welcomes you to use his tracks in your works (podcasts, videos etc) and is open to being hired for custom tracks

I love him

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