sweetschizo:

Is your friend/partner not answering your text? Please try to remember that them hating you isn’t the only and definitely isn’t the most realistic reason why that might be.

– Maybe they got interrupted by something or someone.

– Maybe they fell asleep.

– Maybe they’re busy working or studying or otherwise doing something important that requires their full attention.

– Maybe they’re in a situation where being on your phone is considered rude.

– Maybe they’ve put their phone on silent and forgotten about it because they’re busy with something else.

– Maybe their phone died.

– Maybe they got distracted by something and forgot that they they were supposed to answer you/that they hadn’t already answered you.

– Maybe the connection is shitty/maybe there’s issues with their internet.

– Maybe they’re having a bad day and don’t have the energy for chatting right now.

– Maybe they’re focusing so intensely on a hobby/interest, a conversation, a movie/tv show, etc, that they don’t even think of checking their phone

– Maybe they just aren’t on their phone right now. There’s a million valid reasons why that might be.

Please don’t jump to the conclusion that they are willfully ignoring you because they hate you – all of the above suggestions are far more likely.

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