Month: September 2018

writhe:

HERE ON THIS BLOG WE GIVE A FUCK!! APATHY FEEDS THE MACHINE! WE ARE ALL ABOUT LOVING AND CARING DEEPLY FOR HUMANITY HERE!

woodmeat:

kinkycheshire:

woodmeat:

woodmeat:

*cracks open a fresh pussy*
*Glug glug glug glug glug ahh*
Refreshing

*crushes it against my forehead*

I really hope you mean the energy drink.

What energy drink

jennyslateswife:

jennyslateswife:

jennyslateswife:

we’re really gonna go back to ‘women should just choose to not date men and call that lesbianism!’ again huh

we’re gonna do part 2 of this? in 2018???

it’s such an insult to bi women AND lesbians to just dismiss how fucking hard it is to love women. and it’s an insult to bi women and straight women to act like we’re dumb or less woke for potentially loving men as if we had a choice in the matter.

and, yeah, i am defending straight women here. like… it’s not funny or just pitiable that every time they develop feelings for men and act on them they risk severe violence (physical or otherwise) from their oppressors. the idea that one of the most pure feelings in the world (love) is an inherent risk for women of all sexualities isn’t like… funny or a race to prove how your love is more work. loving men? is a huge fucking risk when it comes to things like domestic violence, being forced to take on domestic labor, and just about all the other shit that comes with being with men. loving women? is a huge fucking risk when it comes to homophobic violence and other forms of discrimination.

women’s attraction, desire, and behaviour is framed as a lose-lose-lose situation and to act like we can just “choose” a better option is fucking insulting. there’s really no better term for it–it’s just insulting.

“Well, women can just choose to not date at all if they aren’t attracted to women!” The idea that women must live lives without romantic love because being with men is such a risk isn’t like… something we should celebrate or act like it’s an easy task. It isn’t fair to put the onus back on women to “protect themselves” from men instead of putting the onus on men to end patriarchal oppression or at least be decent enough individuals that women can feel safe loving them.

southpawgrammar1995:

I mean all of the posts implying that all men are inherently toxic, abusive, unloving and emotionally unintelligent while all women are gentle, tender, full of love and emotionally intelligent, as if we’re not all a) members of the same species with very little inherent difference between us and b) all capable of being any of those things regardless of gender. It’s absurd, and more to the point it’s hurtful. It’s hurtful to trans men, who are forced into the same traitor narrative crafted by TERFs. It’s hurtful to men of colour, particularly black men, who are already disproportionately portrayed as violent and dangerous. It’s hurtful to autistic people whose lack of emotional intelligence is framed as a flaw in their morals.

It’s hurtful to male victims of abuse who are terrified of becoming like their abusers.

It’s hurtful to victims of female abusers.

It makes it incredibly difficult for victims of abuse by women and other non-men to recognise that abuse for what it is, particularly if gaslighting is already involved.

It’s frightening for me, as a bi woman who was abused by a woman, resulting in a constant fear of being abused again by a loved one, to be constantly bombarded with this narrative of “all men secretly want to hurt you, and if a woman hurts you we don’t want to know, so have fun!” It’s inaccurate, dangerous, and just fucking stale.