why don’t we talk more about trans peoples complicated relationships with sexuality? how it’s hard to tell if you’re attracted to someone or just want to look like them, how when you’re questioning and figuring out your gender it’s difficult to find the right label for your sexuality, how it seems impossible to have a relationship in the first place because of people’s transphobia and/or the fact that they don’t see you as your actual gender. and how dysphoria interacts with your sexuality. trans people are definitely allowed to have a complicated relationship with their sexuality, and it can be hard to figure out, i hope people keep this in mind more
and this especially goes for trans people trying to figure out whether they are gay or not!! that’s hard enough to figure out without adding being trans into the mix! and considering that we don’t have your average realizing you’re gay experience
bongdanceking 