For the record, you can’t decide a lot of what happens when it comes to your children but I 100000000% would rather my kids be considered spoiled than abused. With that, I would rather my kids feel secure, safe and comforted within their home than scared of me. I would rather have my kids feel happy and loved than worthless and hated. And that’s that on that.
Some of y’all talk about parenting in such a creepy way. It’s as if you’d rather harden your kid “for survival” than teach them self-worth or how to be a decent human being.
bongdanceking 