some Dynamic dichotomies
- holmes archetype/watson archetype
- absolute nightmare/sweaterboy
- darning socks to do theatre/rowing crew to avoid pleasure
- universal recipient/universal donor
- noble folly/base wisdom
- mistaken for emotionless/mistaken for boring
- bike equals heart/figurative crocheting
- schlemiel/schlimazel
- trying to be larger than life/trying to be normal
- flower/gardener
- stage actor/screen actor
- tall and pretentious/steady timekeeper
- “you’d be surprised what you can live without”/”you’d be surprised what you can live with”

